My bf decided not to go to a performing arts school next yearb/c of me... should I stay with him?

answers1: talk it over wit him one more time. tell him to really think
bout it .. <br>
not to just say " no i hav a girl here so i wont go" <br>
tell him to really think bout <br>
and if he chooses to stay than he chose cause he actually thought bout
it .. <br>
as for the sex thing just tell him i mean if he really cares than he
should understand that u dont want to <br>
right ..
answers2: There are two things in what you've written that really
stood out to me. <br>
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"Plus, I'm a little afraid that this could be used to guilt me into
sex... and I don't want to go there." and "And... I'm a senior but
staying in town for college... and I'm not 18 yet, but when that
happens, an 18 year old dating a 15 year old is a little weird." <br>
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If his staying in town and not going to this performing arts school is
going to make you feel guilty, and possibly lead you to feel like you
are being manipulated... then you need to think about how that
situation compares to the two of you splitting up. Is your guilt and
uncomfortable feelings worth it? If he isn't someone you see spending
your life with... is it worth him making that sacrifice, is it worth
your sacrifice? <br>
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I also want to just mention the age of consent here. <br>
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http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm <br>
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I don't know what state you are in but you may want to seriously
consider if your relationship falls into this sorta gray bad area.
Are you likely to be made an example of if he's not of age? Not
really... but could you? Sure. (This is NOT meant to make you feel
bad about you're relationship or age difference! I just wanted to
make sure this is a legal age thing you could possibly face.
Unfortunately which you're relationship could make total sense,
legally not everyone would agree.)
answers3: yes because he sacrificed for you!1!
answers4: It really is his decision. If he decides that you are more
important than that school, than so be it. If you force him to go, it
wouldn't really be his choice now would it? He's a guy . Guys know
what they want and if it's something that's extremely important to
him, he would go. Now I guess you should be a bit happy that he's
decided to stay with you. If you forced him to go he might think that
you want him to leave you or something as of that. About the sex
thing, just let him know you don't want to. He's to understand you.
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Stay with him. He made the choice. :)
answers5: Enjoy your time with him. Remember, he made the choice. You
didn't. It was his choice to stay and you were just a part of the
reason. If it doesn't work out, then it'll be all okay. Don't worry
too much and don't do the deed until you are ready.