answers1: you blah. i would hateeeee that. :[ idk. i have a hard time
liking my ex's...like a have no friends that are ex's. it's cool
though. there is a REASON there is an X there. XD
answers2: I wouldnt date a co-worker, and that is precicely why.
Inter-office romance is doomed to failure in most cases for a couple
of reasons. The reason that inspired your question is one of them.
Another is the problem that I have seen when one of the people gets a
new job. Suddenly they dont get to spend any time together, because
they actually counted a major part of their "time together" as time
they spent at work. They eventually broke up. So then they had to quit
their job too because all around them were reminders of their ex. <br>
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But in answer to your question, I would get a new job.
answers3: On the inside I'd be hating every second ... but it's work.
What can you do but just act like an adult and treat them (at least
outwardly) with basic kindness and respect? Be cordial, and when you
get home, use a picture of their face for a dart board or something.
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It sucks, but being civil seems like the only option, unless you want
to find a new job.
answers4: I wouldn't care, not going to let him ruin my life and
especially get in the way of me and my job. That's just foolish.
answers5: It depends on which ex, there was one who broke my heart and
stomped on it. I'd get a Russian dictionary and send her messages in
Russian. If you studied Russian history, you'd know who Nikolai
Romanov was. She actually thinks or thought he rides on her shoulder.
answers6: Ignore him the best that i could. Never be stuck in the same
room with him or the elevator, basically avoid him.
answers7: wouldn't happen...I don't sh!t ..where I eat.....but if I
did ..hook up with some one...I would be cordial....haven't had my
heart broken...but I have pissed off a few girlfriends ..... I cant
help it.... if they act a fool around me... especially if I'm with
someone else... ...
answers8: There is a certain coolness of attitude coupled with
ordinary workplace courtesy which is far more apt to make him realize
he was a fool to drop you than either excessive friendliness or
clearly bitter behaviour. Probably the other person has some qualms
too. Unless it was a pure and simple, unilateral heartstompin'----I
suggest trying to get along with it the same way you would with any
other co-worker you didn't particularly like. <br>
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the unfortunate thing about emotions is how they feed upon and
resonate each other. <br>
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Ever notice how you tend to like someone who indicates they like you
or find you interesting, attractive, etc. <br>
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Well---my guess is that you are more the grown-up in this relationship
(former relationship)---so---you probably get to set the tone. <br>
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In both our work places, the supermarket, and sometimes even in our
extended families----we don't always "like" each other. That's what
manners and courtesy were invented for. They don't tell you how to
get along with people you like or love---that's pretty easy. they
tell you how to get along with annoying people who are standing on
your foot, or your last nerve. while keeping your own personal
standards of dignity and decency. <br>
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(Heartbroken too)
answers9: Act professional, but not friendly. Be cold, not rude.
answers10: Not quite the same but I have to work with my ex crush(and
friend) who really treated me and turned out to be a two faced
backstabber, it sucks!
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